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One should not be judgmental though it is in our nature to be just that. To be righteous is to take a very close look at our own weaknesses and skeletons and realize we'd better keep our opinions to ourselves when it comes to another, maybe it would be a good thing not to have any at all...
Yes, this may seem unrealistic, because we as a society love nothing better than to bash someone, especially when he or she is already down in the dumps. Honestly, I've said things about others mainly when I was younger, and not as "wise", mostly due to jealousy. It was my way of assuaging my failures and shortcomings. It took several hard knocks in my life to appreciate the fact that I'm positively not better than anyone else and that I certainly had not earned the right to criticize another. No matter how young or old, rich or poor, we all have to answer for ourselves one day, and since we're imperfect as humans, my motto is "don't judge a book by its cover". Ok, sometimes I stray from that, but I really make a conscious effort to "look at the big picture" and keep remembering my own limitations.
Yet, there is another aspect I consider when the occasion arises. What I mean is that when someone tells me that due to certain facts and/or rules that he or she believes have to be considered and abided by at all costs, I must admit my German blood tends to begin to simmer. I'm not a brave person, but I abhor the idea of someone dominating and manipulating another. I do not condone it in the world of business either, and that's one main reason why I'm a poor schmuck and not a rich one.
As far as I'm concerned, we all have only one life to live, and it is absolutely sinful and abusive, in my opinion, to control and subdue another by whatever means. Living in emotional turmoil and constant fear snuffs out the light in one's eyes and damages a person in ways I can only imagine. I have a difficult time accepting anyone living like that.
Truthfully, I can be meek and don't have a whole lot to say in order to keep peace at times. It helps me keep my job, for instance. In my personal life though it's a little different. I don't like confrontation and I do not like to argue, though there may be some who'd probably disagree, but I see "red" when I come across someone who lives in perpetual dread and panic, because he or she does not believe to have the right as an individual to speak their mind and "say it like it is" because the price for such rebellion, such mutiny, is too high.
In short, we of the "civilized" society choose how we wish to live, and there are those of us who are strong and those who are weak. The shame is that the strong too often seem to oppress the weak, and if I've got my history right, it's been that way since the beginning of time.
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